yungfrankenstein2:

Be Open and Honest with what you want from your partner. It’ll help you in the long run.

I don’t know why there is this stigma or bad juju around talking to your partner about your sexual fantasies or dislikes/interests.

We step into the bedroom and openly share our body with another person and some of us continue to do so in long term relationships with out tuning and redefining what brings us pleasure.

There is absolutely nothing wrong with sitting your partner down and saying “Hey I would like it if you licked my balls a little more, I enjoy the sensation it gives me. Is there anything that I can do differently or try that might bring you pleasure?”

It isn’t meant to bring shame to the other person for not doing it already but open up a open dialogue about sex that would be beneficial in the long run.

We are programmed to have sex a certain way from our first experience in life and it carries forward from each sexual partner. You have to remember that your partners sexual past is different and they might like to do things differently. Be open to that.

Don’t shame or laugh at your partner for being open about their kinks or fetishes. That will do nothing but harm your relationship. It will put up a barrier between the two of you which could lead your partner to seek comfort elsewhere.

I’ve seen a lot of men and women step out of what was a seemingly happily marriage or relationship because they wanted to experience something and couldn’t communicate it to their partner out of fear of shame or disapproval.

If you truly love someone, I mean truly love that person. You will love all of them.

All “I like to be fucked in sling while you pour honey over me and call me Pooh Bear” of them. 😂😂😂

Just be open people. Be accepting. Be aware. Be honest.

That’s my little rant for the night. Good Luck and Good Humping 😋😋