Boys we need to talk about this big dick obsession, because it’s ruining your sex life:
Cards on the table, I’m not hung and I’m not a size queen, I’m not interested in taking a 9″ dick any more than I want to have one myself. Sadly for me gay world seems to be obsessed with them. As the stats go people who have more than 7″ get more than 50% more sex than people who are smaller. Lets talk about why the size queens are missing out.
First lets define average because if you are used to porn you are probably confused. Average is 5.2″ in length and 4.5″ in girth, for those of you in the civilised world that’s 13cm by 11.6cm. 91% of the population is smaller than 7″. If you want to see what average cock size looks like, here it is:
Men are always going to want more, dicks must be bigger, cars must go faster etc, but here is why I prefer average sized guys:
1. The mechanics of sex means that for things to feel good for the bottom the top needs to be hitting his prostate. How big do you have to be to do that? 3″-4″ depending on the guy, length wise everything after that isn’t really doing anything. Now extra girth helps here, the thicker the cock the more pressure it puts on the prostate, but longer doesn’t equal more pleasurable. The next time you care about length is when the top hits the back and that’s quite painful, it will detract from the experience.
2. Average guys are easier to suck and the experience is better for both parties. I have a friend who’s hung, he hates BJ’s. In his words “it’s all teeth and guys choking”. While that can be hot sometimes it does not usually lead to a load down your throat. Even if you have no gag reflex it’s hard to avoid teeth with someone who is big. You know you aren’t doing a good job and so does he.
3. There are more average guys around. Yes I know the quality vs quantity debate (not that I agree that hung=quality) but 1 in 10 guys is hung. If you are horny those aren’t good odds for you. Also given the prevalence of size queens these guys also have a LOT of choice.
4. Less prep. I dated a hung guy once, I’d wake up getting poked in the back with him wanting morning sex and it was never going to happen because I needed some prep time for something that big. The big problem is when the guy is long enough to get into the second sphincter because your prep time triples. I’ve dated plenty of guys who are average that I could confidently take without any prep, with hung guys you are never sure whats going to happen. Big dicks are fine occasionally but you don’t have to deal with that every day.
5. Skill levels. Now it’s tempting to say hung guys aren’t that good in bed because they don’t have to try as hard, I don’t believe this is true. A lot of hung guys are quite good in bed but their skill set is a bit different, they are good at not hurting you (there is of course the other group who seem to like to deliberately hurt you). Most hung guys hold back a bit, whereas average guys can fuck a bit harder and it still feels good. When you are with a hung guy there is a good chance that one of you will have sub optimal sex, when the top is average he can go to town on your arse and you will both enjoy it.
The point, boys and girls, is that too many guys are making big cock size a prerequisite for sex. I want you to have a long think about whether those experiences are actually better than with average guys. If you think about it you may find that you actually prefer a husband sized dick, rather than the novelty of a big cock that you can’t really deal with all that well.
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